The shopkeeper who did not like ‘nigger money’

Fair business practices 15 Comments

It was a truly shocking comment.

A few weeks ago, I was in a store in Itaewon, a major shopping district for foreigners in Seoul, where two young Afro-Americans were engaged in somewhat negotiations with the Korean shopkeeper over the price of a pair of pants.

The process quickly became hostile, and the young men stormed out in disgust after the shopkeeper in question declared that he did not like ‘nigger money.’

The comment was shocking, as were the shopkeeper’s subsequent actions, where he looked at me (the only other customer in his store) and repeated his comment.

Apparently, he thought that because I was white, that I would somehow be impressed by his racist viewpoint.

Naturally, he was mistaken. Utterly disgusted, I got out of his store without making any purchases as quickly as I possibly could.

 
Racism still a reality
The above incident highlights a most unfortunate truth – racism is still a reality in modern business practices.

Another example – last year, a Korean teacher from a school located nearby where I lived asked if I new of any native English teachers who would be willing and available to teach at his school.

When I suggested a particular young South African woman, the immediate response of the teacher concerned was to enquire about her skin color, and he seemed somewhat relieved when I told him that her skin color was white.

Evidently, a white young lady would suit the needs of his school nicely. Dark skin, on the other hand, was not preferred.

Granted, the above examples relate only to the situation within South Korea, but unfortunately, I would bet that racist attitudes are still prevalent in business practices throughout many different countries.

 
The right to choose is no excuse for discrimination
Broadly speaking, I feel that businesses have a right to decide: (a) whom they serve; and (b) whom they are served by.

Business owners have a right to define their target clientele, and should, depending on the circumstances, feel as though they are well within their rights to refuse service to particular individual customers. They are also well within their rights, again within reason, to refuse to hire particular individuals as employees.

But this does not give them a right to practice mindless forms of discrimination, and the attitudes demonstrated in the above examples simply should not be considered to be acceptable in modern business practice.

 
When does a business have a right to discriminate?
Some would say never.

I would not entirely agree, but I would stress that any range of circumstances where any form of racial discrimination should be considered acceptable would be very, very narrow.

I would feel that it would be acceptable, for example, for a bar or nightclub that wishes to promote an ‘Asian night,’ to refuse admission to patrons of non-Asian background on the night in question.

Or how about an organization whose clientele consists primarily of members of religious communities? I would think that it would be somewhat understandable to some degree if such organizations demonstrated a preference in the hiring process for employees of a racial background which is similar to that of the main clientele.

In these types of examples, the decision to allow racial factors to influence behavior is based around genuine concerns with respect to the creation of an environment in which clientele feel most comfortable and at ease.

 
But mindless discrimination is not acceptable
But the type of situation to which this type of consideration would apply would be very limited indeed, and there is absolutely no room for the type of mindless discrimination displayed by the Korean shopkeeper mentioned at the beginning of this discussion.

Straightforward bias against individuals of a particular race or skin color should not be considered acceptable practice, and one would have hoped that the modern business environment would have been free from that ugly behavior by now.

 
 
 

15 Responses to “The shopkeeper who did not like ‘nigger money’”

  1. tom Says:
    April 8th, 2009 at 4:01 am

    Sadly yes it happens and sometimes with no legitimate reasons.

    But lets look around, these comments start off because of a few events that happen all the time and instantly that image gets put on the whole population.

    And with black people, this issue has been going on for years, starting with slavery.

    I think to overcome this, you simply got to fight and stand up for yourself, if you are in this situation.

    Or in your situation, suggesting someone for a job, standing up for them would work well and not just standing there and letting someone go on about how its bad.

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  2. Jake Says:
    April 8th, 2009 at 6:30 am

    Dude, you should live here in the south where I do and hear the crap that comes out of peoples mouths… it’s sad, really sad!

    When the election was in full swing, I had quite a few discussions about Obama, and it was beyond me that people in this day in time would look me in the eye and say they would not vote for a ni@@er.

    Maybe someday racism will disappear, but I doubt it ever will…

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  3. Andrew Says:
    April 8th, 2009 at 7:36 am

    Tom,

    I agree that people of all races should take a stand whenever they witness an incident of racism – an area in which I have not been particularly strong in the past myself due to my somewhat shy nature.

    Jake,

    Leadership should be awarded on the basis of merit, not skin color, and those from whom you heard these types of comments demonstrated an atrocious way of thinking in terms of leadership selection.

    Unfortunately, as you say, the unfortunate reality appears to be that racism will disappear anytime soon.

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  4. tom Says:
    April 8th, 2009 at 12:41 pm

    It is basically how a few ruin it for the rest. We have witnessed this at school, at work, society, etc.

    Sure it sucks but it gives us something to fight against and to become a greater person.

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  5. Ana Says:
    April 11th, 2009 at 11:29 am

    Human beings are a contradiction. We are a very narcissistic species at the same time that we are very insecure. We always need to feel that we are better than someone else and the center of the universe. This comes across in abusive behavior against other races, women, other species, the environment, gays, etc.

    Everyone likes to blame the white male, but Andrew’s story is just one example of how everyone is susceptible to this kind of behavior.

    I think that we will eventually outgrow this pettiness, but I don’t know where we’ll be as a species or a planet when that happens.

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  6. Meg Says:
    April 11th, 2009 at 10:10 pm

    I noticed the same issues with Chinese schools and hiring whites only. There was also a prejudice against fat or unattractive teachers, which really made me wonder just what we were hired to do!

    It’s weird living in the South now, where people who seemed educated still say things like “chink food” or drop the N-word in conversation.

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  7. Natural Says:
    April 12th, 2009 at 12:38 am

    This is truly a disgusting behavior, discrimination. Believe me, being black, I experience it, especially when going into stores. They always think you want to steal something. I don’t like the N word, it’s offensive no matter who is saying it, even other blacks. The thing about skin color is that we cannot change it but we can change how we treat people because of it. There is a variety in all of creation, how come we don’t accept it in humans…and we’re supposed to be the most intelligent creatures of all. Too bad we don’t act like it.

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  8. Giovanna Garcia Says:
    April 13th, 2009 at 12:52 am

    Hi Andrew

    Racism is very much a reality. What I notice is a lot of them the people who act out racism are the victim of rancism themselve.
    I like your message about, “The right to choose is no excuse for discrimination.” We can choose to be better human being.

    Giovanna Garcia
    Imperfect Action is better than No Action

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  9. Andrew Says:
    April 13th, 2009 at 7:03 pm

    Hi Ana,

    I suspect that insecurities of some form may well be part of the root cause of this type of behavior.

    I sure hope your prediction that we will eventually outgrow this rubbish comes to fruition. A racism free world is most certainly worth striving for.

    Hi Meg,

    Unfortunately, the prejudice in terms of the hiring process with respect to ESL teachers seems to be all too common across large parts of Asia.

    Hi Natural,

    This must be very frustrating for you. You deserve to be treated with the same amount of dignity as everyone else and should not have to put up with that kind of rubbish.

    Whilst some people may feel threatened by dark colored skin, that should be their problem – not yours.

    The ‘N’ word is utterly offensive and has no place in polite conversation.

    Hi Giovanna,

    Interesting observation – I was well area of the concept that victims of physical or sexual abuse had a greater probability of becoming perpetrators of these types of crimes, but I had never thought about the idea of how a similar concept may apply toward racism.

    Andrews last blog post..What I learned from almost being mugged

  10. Aman@BullsBattleBears Says:
    April 14th, 2009 at 5:01 am

    Its sad to hear these story but even worse is the fact that I’m not surprised. I have experienced my share of racism while living all over the world. I can never understand where people get racist mentalities these days when almost all corners of the world are comprised of a mixing of races.

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  11. Andrew Says:
    April 14th, 2009 at 7:38 pm

    Aman,

    You would think that in the globalized, multi-cultural enviroment in which much of the world lives these days that racism would be a thing of the past.

    Unfortunately, this does not appear to be the case.

    Andrews last blog post..Diligently handing money over to scam artists

  12. Karen Swim Says:
    April 17th, 2009 at 10:03 pm

    Andrew, I think a big part of the solution is what you’ve done here and that is expose the problem and openly discuss it. Yes, racism is still alive and it is not limited to discriminating against other ethnic groups but inter-race discrimination is common. Koreans view darker colored Koreans as field workers and hold lighter skinned Koreans in higher esteem. We discriminate based on skin color, hair color, economic status, weight and so much more. I think we all can work on letting go of biases and dealing with every person as an individual, judging them based on who they show themselves to be rather than on preconceived biases.

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  13. Andrew Says:
    April 20th, 2009 at 7:13 am

    Karen,

    I particularly like the point you make in your last sentence, and we are to pass any form of judgment upon others at all, it should be based upon their individual behavior, not any pre-conceived ideas which we each might hold.

    Andrews last blog post..How 35 workplace deaths were exposed in an internet chat room

  14. Roller Banners Says:
    January 13th, 2010 at 4:28 am

    It’s hard to believe in this day and age that such ignorance exists. It was interesting to read some of the comments above regarding inter-race discrimination.

  15. drew Says:
    January 14th, 2010 at 2:54 pm

    Hi Roller Banners,

    Thanks for your comment and welcome to my blog. I hope that you find the discussions here to be interesting and stimulating.

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